Although, male chimps have measly fathering skills compared to human males – and that’s partly why they need to ALL invest a bit of paternal energy.

But more importantly – what, on a reproductive/biological level, do men sacrifice? The more a man is eagerly looking to sleep around, the lower quality women (low mate value) he has to settle for in that act.

But quality is still the sacrifice for a promiscuous man – and that’s why men will try to get the highest value woman they can for a relationship – and have low standards for casual sex.

If human males were chimpanzees though, they’d all crowd around and take care of the baby – even if 10 of them had sex with the same lady chimp, because there’s always a CHANCE that the baby is theirs.

According to scientific research reported in the book ‘Social Psychology and Human Sexuality’ – women potentially sacrifice their reputation, and risk being viewed as having lower mate quality.

Of course, we don’t live in tribes of 100-200 or more any longer.

What do you suppose men sacrifice when they sleep around a lot? Yes, men can jeopardise their future potential to have a high value mate through perpetual promiscuity (See the book social Psychology and Human Sexuality, 2001). Of course, the ACT of sex carries with it very little sacrifice for a man. But the kind of man who is being promiscuous is not generally having sex with 10 women who are rated 10s every week.

Click here to find out if you’re Dating a Commitment Friendly Man A good reputation? Many men who sleep around don’t mind this; all they are looking for is novelty in experience anyway. It’s still a sacrifice – in terms of a relationship and in terms of a reputation for the purposes of having a relationship with a high value woman though. Women might be attracted to promiscuous men and have sex with them.

Another way we can think about it is – it is generally assumed among the male community that high reproductive value women are extremely hard to ‘hook up with’, in COMPARISON to lower mate value women.And what do WOMEN potentially sacrifice, if we sleep with a man quickly (as in, before enough attraction has been built up)?However, three risk factors of sleeping around, or unattached sex still remains, for most women –1) Once we do something, regardless of whether we don’t EVER tell anyone we did it – our neurology has experienced it and something internally still DROVE us to make these choices. I theorise, probably dumbly so, since I’m not an expert – I theorise that men do this gossiping about easy sex to warn each other (their own sex), just like women gossip about ‘jerks’ who make bad or abusive boyfriends – men spread pictures, videos, and gossip about women they have casually slept with.And if we mainly practice unattached sex, we are avoiding the deeper parts of ourselves that truly want to surrender in trust to a trustworthy man – our body can, over time, train to send messages to men that we are ‘the one of many’ rather than the ‘one and only’. High value men looking to devote themselves will be able to read what a woman is all about through our body faster than we even get the opportunity to verbally tell them anything about ourselves. This is possibly because on a primal level, in our tribal days – this information was CRUCIAL to the future reproductive safety of all men – why?So, reputation damage isn’t as real a threat to females as it may have been many years ago.Women in one country can fly across the world and sleep with many men, and then fly home and not risk any damage to their reputation, don’t you think?